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The Friendship Recession: Finding Meaningful Connections as We Age
While the friendship recession may seem overwhelming, it also presents a chance to reshape our social circles for the better.
By welcoming change, taking initiative, and nurturing meaningful relationships, we can navigate this new friendship landscape with a sense of purpose. Remember that friendship is a journey—it evolves, and every effort you make can lead to richer, more fulfilling connections.
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 313 min read
 
 


Invest in Your Future: Discover the Life-Changing Benefits of Counseling Services
The benefits of counseling services are both impressive and far-reaching. From increased self-awareness and improved coping skills to better communication and heightened self-esteem, counseling is a lifeline for those in need and a valuable investment in a healthier, more satisfying life. As we prioritize our mental health, let's remember that seeking counseling shows strength. By embracing counseling services, we can build a brighter, more resilient future. Take that first s
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 54 min read
 
 


Boost Your Self-Worth with These Simple Daily Empowerment Techniques
Elevating your self-worth is an ongoing journey. Through dedication, you can cultivate valuable practices that foster self-esteem. Challenge negative thoughts, practice self-compassion, celebrate your achievements, set realistic goals, and nurture positive relationships. Every small change can lead to significant transformation. Start today and experience the uplift in your self-worth! Contact me at rebekahcounseling.com
mrebekahshurtleff
Jul 263 min read
 
 


How to Not Take Things Personally: Eight Strategies to Build Self-Worth and Challenge Negative Thoughts
In a world full of differing opinions and judgments, it's all too easy to take things personally. A seemingly innocuous comment from a friend, feedback from a colleague, or even criticism from a loved one can sting deeply and affect our emotional well-being. When someone says, "Don't take it so personally," it might feel dismissive, but learning to separate facts from feelings is vital for your mental health. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jul 204 min read
 
 


Finding Inner Peace Through Self-Reflection and Introspection
Self-reflection isn't about dwelling on mistakes or being overly critical. It's an opportunity to pause and gain insight into the many layers that shape who you are. Have you ever considered what your strengths are or what challenges you face? Start your journey of self-discovery with questions like: What aspects of myself do I struggle with? What qualities do I admire in myself? After a tough day, try writing down three things you've learned about yourself. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 293 min read
 
 


Free Yourself from Your Past Versions of Self
Therapy can serve as a mirror, reflecting both your internal and external selves. It encourages introspection and guides you toward a more genuine version of yourself. Each session can bring you closer to a happier you, free from the constraints of outdated beliefs. The transformative journey of letting go and healing is indeed powerful. As you let go of survival-based versions, you unlock new dimensions of your identity and the potential for enriching relationships.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 314 min read
 
 


5 Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion and Foster Personal Growth
Self-reflection is not about dwelling on the past or criticizing yourself harshly. It's about pausing, questioning, and understanding.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 223 min read
 
 


Transforming Fear into Freedom: The Power of Intention and Vocabulary Change
Living fearlessly is more than just facing fear head-on; it's about transforming your mindset and refining how you communicate with yourself and others. The words we use can profoundly shape our experiences and guide our actions. By consciously changing our vocabulary, we can break free from limiting beliefs and cultivate a more intentional, empowered life.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 204 min read
 
 


Mastering Emotional Overload: Essential Strategies for Stress Management and Building Resilience
Feeling overwhelmed is a common hurdle, but it can be managed with effective strategies. Focus on the present moment, break tasks into smaller steps, prioritize your well-being, and seek support when needed. Recognize your resilience, limit stressors, challenge negative thoughts, and celebrate your small wins.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 64 min read
 
 


Unraveling the Complexities of Guilt and Shame for Lasting Healing and Fulfillment
Guilt and shame arise from perceived wrongdoings. Guilt occurs when we believe we've violated our own ethical standards, leading to regret and a desire to make amends. On the other hand, shame digs deeper into our sense of self-worth. It comes from feeling fundamentally flawed or inadequate, often triggered by societal expectations or criticism.
mrebekahshurtleff
Apr 254 min read
 
 


5 Key Strategies to Conquer Stress and Embrace International Stress Awareness Month
Stress Awareness Month provides the perfect opportunity to shine a light on this invisible burden and empower ourselves and others to seek healthier coping mechanisms.
mrebekahshurtleff
Apr 224 min read
 
 


Embracing Your Inner Light: How Self-Reflection and Compassion Can Transform Your Life
Self-reflection is key to personal growth and understanding yourself better. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Apr 83 min read
 
 


How the Friendship Recession Affects Our Mental Health
Despite being surrounded by others online, feelings of isolation and disconnection are becoming alarmingly common. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 274 min read
 
 


How to Distinguish Between Self-Compassion and Self-Indulgence: A Professional Approach
Self-kindness involves treating yourself with warmth instead of being critical. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 153 min read
 
 


How Telehealth Therapy Can Transform Your Mental Health Care
Telehealth puts mental health care right at your fingertips, breaking down barriers such as lengthy commutes and scheduling issues. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 253 min read
 
 


Embracing January Dreams and Beating the Blues with a Positive Mindset
Explore practical ways to cultivate a positive mindset, tackle the January blues, and unlock the potential of January dreams.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 84 min read
 
 


2025: Embracing Self-Compassion and Growth After 2024's Lessons Learned
2025 holds the potential for new opportunities and growth, and it begins with our perspective on the past. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 43 min read
 
 


Embracing the Good-Enoughist Mindset: Overcoming Self-Rejection and Perfectionism
Many perfectionists avoid vulnerability, resulting in harsh self-criticism, which only deepens feelings of rejection. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 13 min read
 
 


Revolutionize Your New Year: Swap Resolutions for Gratitude and Celebration
This New Year, let’s revolutionize our approach by replacing traditional resolutions with gratitude and reflection. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 29, 20243 min read
 
 


Unveiling the Truth: Are the Holidays Really Happy?
The holiday season is undeniably complex. While it can bring joy, it can also pose significant challenges for many. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 14, 20244 min read
 
 
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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