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Understanding the Balance: Self-Compassion vs Self-Indulgence
By practicing self-compassion, you can cultivate a more supportive internal dialogue and foster self-growth without falling into the trap of excessive indulgence. Aim to treat yourself with kindness while still being mindful of your choices. Prioritize your long-term well-being, and you’ll find a harmonious balance that nourishes both the heart and mind.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 195 min read
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Free Yourself from Your Past Versions of Self
Therapy can serve as a mirror, reflecting both your internal and external selves. It encourages introspection and guides you toward a more genuine version of yourself. Each session can bring you closer to a happier you, free from the constraints of outdated beliefs. The transformative journey of letting go and healing is indeed powerful. As you let go of survival-based versions, you unlock new dimensions of your identity and the potential for enriching relationships.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 314 min read
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5 Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion and Foster Personal Growth
Self-reflection is not about dwelling on the past or criticizing yourself harshly. It's about pausing, questioning, and understanding.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 233 min read
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Mastering Emotional Overload: Essential Strategies for Stress Management and Building Resilience
Feeling overwhelmed is a common hurdle, but it can be managed with effective strategies. Focus on the present moment, break tasks into smaller steps, prioritize your well-being, and seek support when needed. Recognize your resilience, limit stressors, challenge negative thoughts, and celebrate your small wins.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 64 min read
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What's the Difference Between Being Alone and Feeling Lonely?
Understanding the difference between being alone and feeling lonely is essential for enhancing our emotional health.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 193 min read
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How to Distinguish Between Self-Compassion and Self-Indulgence: A Professional Approach
Self-kindness involves treating yourself with warmth instead of being critical.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 153 min read
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The Top 5 Surprising Benefits of Premarital Counseling You Didn't Know
Premarital counseling is designed to address various areas critical for a successful marriage no matter what stage in life.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 83 min read
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The Power of Self-Love in Transforming Relationships and Resolving Conflict
Every step you take toward self-acceptance is a step toward fostering a more profound relational love.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 13 min read
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How Telehealth Therapy Can Transform Your Mental Health Care
Telehealth puts mental health care right at your fingertips, breaking down barriers such as lengthy commutes and scheduling issues.
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 253 min read
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Embracing Authenticity: The Art of Setting Guilt-Free Boundaries
Setting boundaries is essential for your well-being, yet many struggle with guilt when trying to establish them. This guilt often comes...
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 224 min read
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Unveiling the Secrets of Self-Love: Overcoming Obstacles and Embracing Your True Self
Self-love starts with developing self-awareness, embracing self-acceptance, and prioritizing self-care and loving relationship with yourself
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 133 min read
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How to Navigate Conflicts With Love and Empathy: A Guide to Healthy Communication in Couples Counseling
Navigating conflicts with love and empathy is not just a skill—it's a commitment to nurturing a healthy relationship.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 213 min read
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Supporting Others in Crisis: The Art of Extending a Helping Hand without Overstepping Boundaries
Supporting others in crisis is about compassion and respect for their personal boundaries. Your actions can create a space to heal.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 163 min read
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2025: Embracing Self-Compassion and Growth After 2024's Lessons Learned
2025 holds the potential for new opportunities and growth, and it begins with our perspective on the past.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 43 min read
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The Power of Play Therapy in Healing Trauma in Children
Play therapy offers a unique avenue for children to navigate their emotions, communicate their innermost thoughts and fears without words...
mrebekahshurtleff
Jul 5, 20243 min read
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Support for Your Mental & Emotional Health
As a passionate therapist and counselor, I am dedicated to helping people heal and overcome life's challenges. Whether it's anxiety,...

Rebekah Shurtleff
Mar 13, 20241 min read
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Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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