top of page
Latest Articles
Search


Navigating Conflict: Why Sidestepping Issues May Lead to Inner Turmoil
When we go to unimaginable lengths to keep others comfortable—be it our partners, bosses, parents, or even our children—we often sacrifice our own well-being. We apologize excessively, grovel, and even offer up special favors to maintain the status quo. While these actions may keep our relationships afloat temporarily, they can set the stage for a much larger explosion down the road. The war begins not between you and another person, but within yourself.
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 224 min read


How to Distinguish Between Self-Compassion and Self-Indulgence: A Professional Approach
Self-kindness involves treating yourself with warmth instead of being critical.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 153 min read


The Top 5 Surprising Benefits of Premarital Counseling You Didn't Know
Premarital counseling is designed to address various areas critical for a successful marriage no matter what stage in life.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 83 min read


The Power of Self-Love in Transforming Relationships and Resolving Conflict
Every step you take toward self-acceptance is a step toward fostering a more profound relational love.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 13 min read


Unveiling the Secrets of Self-Love: Overcoming Obstacles and Embracing Your True Self
Self-love starts with developing self-awareness, embracing self-acceptance, and prioritizing self-care and loving relationship with yourself
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 133 min read


Self-Love: Is Putting Yourself First Really Selfish?
In today’s fast-paced world, self-love often gets a bad rap. Many equate it with selfishness, thinking that prioritizing your own needs...
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 113 min read


Communication Tips to Transform Relationships in Tough Times
By learning to communicate effectively, you’re not just addressing problems; you’re building a partnership that thrives through challenges.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 223 min read


How to Navigate Conflicts With Love and Empathy: A Guide to Healthy Communication in Couples Counseling
Navigating conflicts with love and empathy is not just a skill—it's a commitment to nurturing a healthy relationship.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 213 min read


Uncover the Power of Couples Counseling: Transform Your Relationship with New Tools and Possibilities!
Couples counseling is a powerful tool for any partnership, offering fresh perspectives and skills to tackle hardships.
mrebekahshurtleff
Oct 19, 20243 min read


Discover the Power of Solo Counseling in Transforming Your Relationship: The Ultimate Guide to Individual Growth and Connection
Solo counseling encourages you to expand your outlook on relationships. Instead of feeling stuck, therapy provides a new perspective.
mrebekahshurtleff
Oct 18, 20244 min read


How to Successfully Navigate Financial Conflict with Your Partner
Unresolved emotional issues, like unmet needs, trust or power struggles, often manifest in financial disputes.
mrebekahshurtleff
Oct 10, 20242 min read


How Can Effective Communication Strengthen Relationships During Times of Distress and Conflict?
Conflict resolution is not about winning or losing but about fostering understanding, empathy, and mutual respect through active listening.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jul 9, 20242 min read


Support for Your Mental & Emotional Health
As a passionate therapist and counselor, I am dedicated to helping people heal and overcome life's challenges. Whether it's anxiety,...

Rebekah Shurtleff
Mar 13, 20241 min read
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
bottom of page
