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Five Mindfulness Techniques to Manage Stress and Overcome Racing Thoughts
Stress and racing thoughts can feel like a constant storm in your mind, making it hard to focus or find peace. When your thoughts spiral, it’s easy to get caught in a loop of worry and anxiety. Mindfulness is about noticing your thoughts without getting pulled into them. When stress hits, pause and watch your thoughts like clouds passing in the sky. This simple act of observation helps you stop rumination, the habit of replaying negative thoughts. Read more....
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 253 min read


Embracing Self-Forgiveness Understanding Growth Through Time and Experience by Accepting Your Past Self
One of the hardest steps in self-forgiveness is releasing guilt. Thoughts like "I should have known better" or "If only I had done things differently" trap us in the past. These moments were not punishers but teachers. They provided lessons that only life experience could reveal. Instead of dwelling on what you didn’t know, recognize that those experiences shaped your growth.
Accepting Your Past Self:
The person you were in the past acted with the knowledge and emotional tool
mrebekahshurtleff
Apr 122 min read


Understanding the Roots of Over-Apologizing and How to Break the Cycle
Understanding why you apologize too much is key to changing the habit and improving your social interactions. By recognizing the brain mechanisms involved, the effects of trauma, and learned behaviors, you can take meaningful steps towards change. Through self-awareness, challenging negative thinking, setting boundaries, and seeking support, you can foster healthier communication habits. Remember, you deserve to express yourself without constantly apologizing.
mrebekahshurtleff
Oct 19, 20254 min read


How the Friendship Recession Affects Our Mental Health
Despite being surrounded by others online, feelings of isolation and disconnection are becoming alarmingly common.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 27, 20254 min read


What's the Difference Between Being Alone and Feeling Lonely?
Understanding the difference between being alone and feeling lonely is essential for enhancing our emotional health.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 19, 20253 min read


How to Distinguish Between Self-Compassion and Self-Indulgence: A Professional Approach
Self-kindness involves treating yourself with warmth instead of being critical.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 15, 20253 min read


The Top 5 Surprising Benefits of Premarital Counseling You Didn't Know
Premarital counseling is designed to address various areas critical for a successful marriage no matter what stage in life.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 8, 20253 min read
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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