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Giving Yourself Grace to Release Shame and Heal Your Younger Self
Self forgiveness allows you to face the truth without collapsing under it. You can name what happened. You can repair what can be repaired. You can grieve what cannot be changed. And you can carry the lesson forward without dragging the shame behind you forever.
That is not weakness. That is emotional maturity.
Shame often comes from judging the past with present knowledge. But your younger self was not standing where you are standing now. They were inside the moment and made
mrebekahshurtleff
3 hours ago8 min read
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Rebuilding Trust in Relationships Through the Lens of Polyvagal Theory, Part II
Trust is the foundation of any close relationship, yet it can be fragile and easily shaken by betrayal or trauma. When trust breaks down, couples often find themselves stuck in patterns of fear, avoidance, or conflict. Understanding how the nervous system influences trust and connection offers a new way to approach healing. Polyvagal Theory reveals how our bodies constantly scan for safety or threat, shaping how we respond to others. This post explores how betrayal affects th
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 143 min read
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Exploring EMDR Therapy Benefits for Veterans Battling PTSD
Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a major challenge for many veterans returning from military service. The emotional and psychological impact of traumatic experiences can be overwhelming, deeply affecting daily life and relationships. Thankfully, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy has become a powerful tool for healing. This blog post discusses the benefits of EMDR therapy for veterans, the essential components, and how it can assist in recove

Rebekah Shurtleff
Nov 2, 20253 min read
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Understanding the Impact of Big T and Little t Trauma
Understanding the Impact of Big T and Little t Trauma. Each journey through trauma is unique, and understanding each through therapy.
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 10, 20243 min read
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Unveiling the Power of EMDR Therapy for Veterans: A Guide to Processing Traumatic Events and PTSD
EMDR is a therapeutic approach that helps individuals process distressing memories. The primary goal is to desensitize these memories.
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 10, 20243 min read
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Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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