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Giving Yourself Grace to Release Shame and Heal Your Younger Self
Self forgiveness allows you to face the truth without collapsing under it. You can name what happened. You can repair what can be repaired. You can grieve what cannot be changed. And you can carry the lesson forward without dragging the shame behind you forever.
That is not weakness. That is emotional maturity.
Shame often comes from judging the past with present knowledge. But your younger self was not standing where you are standing now. They were inside the moment and made
mrebekahshurtleff
3 hours ago8 min read


Rebuilding Trust: How Your Nervous System Shapes Relationships and Healing Part 1
Trust is often seen as a choice or an emotion, but it is much deeper than that. It is a conclusion your nervous system reaches after gathering enough evidence that it is safe to trust again. This process happens beneath conscious thought, rooted in biology and psychology. Understanding how your nervous system evaluates safety and threat can change the way couples approach betrayal, trauma, and healing in relationships. Rebuilding trust after trauma or betrayal is a gradual pr
mrebekahshurtleff
May 312 min read


Transforming the Belief of Not Being Good Enough into a Positive Mindset
Many people carry the painful feeling of not being good enough. This belief often starts early in life, shaped by childhood experiences, societal expectations, or constant comparisons with others. It can trap you in a cycle of self-doubt and negativity that limits your happiness and growth. Changing this belief is key to emotional well-being and personal development. Let’s explore practical steps to challenge this mindset and build a more positive story about yourself.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 253 min read


Coping with the Winter Blues
Many people experience a drop in mood as the days grow shorter and colder. This feeling, often called the "winter blues," can make daily life harder and less enjoyable. For some, these mood changes are brief and mild, but for others, they can be more serious and affect how they think, feel, and behave. Understanding these changes and knowing how to manage them can make a big difference during the colder months. SAD affects the body’s natural rhythms and the balance of seroton
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 32 min read
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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