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Understanding the Roots of Over-Apologizing and How to Break the Cycle
Understanding why you apologize too much is key to changing the habit and improving your social interactions. By recognizing the brain mechanisms involved, the effects of trauma, and learned behaviors, you can take meaningful steps towards change. Through self-awareness, challenging negative thinking, setting boundaries, and seeking support, you can foster healthier communication habits.  Remember, you deserve to express yourself without constantly apologizing. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Oct 194 min read
 
 


Stop the Blame Game and Take Control of Your Life Through Self-Awareness and Forgiveness
Moving Forward: Embracing Growth
Ultimately, the journey to self-awareness and forgiveness is an individual path. It requires commitment and a willingness to face uncomfortable truths. Practicing radical acceptance means releasing the need to blame others for our current troubles. Forgiving those who have hurt us reclaims our power and directs our focus toward the future. It’s about understanding that we have the potential to shape our lives, no matter what we’ve experienc
mrebekahshurtleff
Oct 44 min read
 
 


The Healing Power of Tears: Unveiling the Emotional, Physical, and Social Benefits of Crying
The healing power of tears is undeniable. From the physical benefits of eye health and detoxification to the emotional advantages of stress relief and mood enhancement, crying is a natural part of the human experience. Furthermore, the social benefits, such as bonding and communication, create deeper connections with others.
mrebekahshurtleff
Sep 133 min read
 
 


Finding Inner Peace Through Self-Reflection and Introspection
Self-reflection isn't about dwelling on mistakes or being overly critical. It's an opportunity to pause and gain insight into the many layers that shape who you are. Have you ever considered what your strengths are or what challenges you face? Start your journey of self-discovery with questions like: What aspects of myself do I struggle with? What qualities do I admire in myself? After a tough day, try writing down three things you've learned about yourself. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 293 min read
 
 


How to Distinguish Between Self-Compassion and Self-Indulgence: A Professional Approach
Self-kindness involves treating yourself with warmth instead of being critical. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 153 min read
 
 


Embracing January Dreams and Beating the Blues with a Positive Mindset
Explore practical ways to cultivate a positive mindset, tackle the January blues, and unlock the potential of January dreams.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 84 min read
 
 


Exploring the Nuances of Being Alone Versus Feeling Lonely During the Holidays
As the holidays approach, it’s important to differentiate between being physically alone and the deeper sense of loneliness.
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 18, 20243 min read
 
 


Support for Your Mental & Emotional Health
As a passionate therapist and counselor, I am dedicated to helping people heal and overcome life's challenges. Whether it's anxiety,...

Rebekah Shurtleff 
Mar 13, 20241 min read
 
 
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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