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Giving Yourself Grace to Release Shame and Heal Your Younger Self
Self forgiveness allows you to face the truth without collapsing under it. You can name what happened. You can repair what can be repaired. You can grieve what cannot be changed. And you can carry the lesson forward without dragging the shame behind you forever.
That is not weakness. That is emotional maturity.
Shame often comes from judging the past with present knowledge. But your younger self was not standing where you are standing now. They were inside the moment and made
mrebekahshurtleff
3 hours ago8 min read


Micro Decisions and the Hidden Power of Small Choices
A micro decision is any small decision made during the day. It can be what time to wake up, whether to drink water first, whether to pause before reacting, whether to write one sentence, or whether to put on running shoes. These choices look minor, but they are the steps between point A and point B. Willpower is weakest when life gets loud.
The goal is not to perfect every moment. The goal is to use small choices on purpose, so they start shaping the person you are becoming.
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 284 min read


Growing While Healing Why Both Matter
Give credit for the effort it takes to notice, pause, feel, repair, learn, and begin again. Give credit for the quiet choices no one else sees. Give credit for staying with the process, even when it feels slow.
Healing helps a person become whole enough to move with more peace. Growth helps that person create a life that fits who they are becoming. Together, they form a brave and honest path forward, one step, one boundary, one small win at a time.
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 75 min read


Unconventional Family Bonding: Authentic Activities to Strengthen Connections
Carving out intentional moments for bonding can create lasting memories and strengthen the family unit.
mrebekahshurtleff
Sep 30, 20242 min read


5 Essential Tips for Improving Communication in Blended Families: A Step Parent's Guide
As a step parent, mastering the art of communication can pave the way for developing strong bonds with stepchildren in s new family unit.
mrebekahshurtleff
Sep 29, 20242 min read


Effective Strategies for Mastering Co-Parenting Communication
Are you navigating co-parenting and looking to establish better communication with your ex-partner for the well-being of your children?...
mrebekahshurtleff
Sep 13, 20243 min read


Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges: Tips for Success
In the intricate dance of co-parenting, setting up effective communication and shared goals is vital for the well-being of your children.
mrebekahshurtleff
Sep 13, 20242 min read
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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