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When we go to unimaginable lengths to keep others comfortable—be it our partners, bosses, parents, or even our children—we often sacrifice our own well-being. We apologize excessively, grovel, and even offer up special favors to maintain the status quo. While these actions may keep our relationships afloat temporarily, they can set the stage for a much larger explosion down the road. The war begins not between you and another person, but within yourself.

Elevating your self-worth is an ongoing journey. Through dedication, you can cultivate valuable practices that foster self-esteem. Challenge negative thoughts, practice self-compassion, celebrate your achievements, set realistic goals, and nurture positive relationships. Every small change can lead to significant transformation. Start today and experience the uplift in your self-worth! Contact me at rebekahcounseling.com

In a world full of differing opinions and judgments, it's all too easy to take things personally. A seemingly innocuous comment from a friend, feedback from a colleague, or even criticism from a loved one can sting deeply and affect our emotional well-being. When someone says, "Don't take it so personally," it might feel dismissive, but learning to separate facts from feelings is vital for your mental health.

Self-reflection isn't about dwelling on mistakes or being overly critical. It's an opportunity to pause and gain insight into the many layers that shape who you are. Have you ever considered what your strengths are or what challenges you face? Start your journey of self-discovery with questions like: What aspects of myself do I struggle with? What qualities do I admire in myself? After a tough day, try writing down three things you've learned about yourself.

By practicing self-compassion, you can cultivate a more supportive internal dialogue and foster self-growth without falling into the trap of excessive indulgence. Aim to treat yourself with kindness while still being mindful of your choices. Prioritize your long-term well-being, and you’ll find a harmonious balance that nourishes both the heart and mind.

Father's Day is not just a calendar mark. It stirs deep feelings, making us reflect on our relationships with our fathers. For some, this is a joyful occasion filled with love and gratitude. For others, it can be a time of sadness, reminding them of lost connections or painful memories. This post will explore the complex emotions tied to Father’s Day, acknowledging both the pain and the beauty of our experiences.

Therapy can serve as a mirror, reflecting both your internal and external selves. It encourages introspection and guides you toward a more genuine version of yourself. Each session can bring you closer to a happier you, free from the constraints of outdated beliefs. The transformative journey of letting go and healing is indeed powerful. As you let go of survival-based versions, you unlock new dimensions of your identity and the potential for enriching relationships.

Self-reflection is not about dwelling on the past or criticizing yourself harshly. It's about pausing, questioning, and understanding.

Understanding the difference between being alone and feeling lonely is essential for enhancing our emotional health.

Self-kindness involves treating yourself with warmth instead of being critical.

Self-love starts with developing self-awareness, embracing self-acceptance, and prioritizing self-care and loving relationship with yourself

Supporting others in crisis is about compassion and respect for their personal boundaries. Your actions can create a space to heal.

Explore practical ways to cultivate a positive mindset, tackle the January blues, and unlock the potential of January dreams.

2025 holds the potential for new opportunities and growth, and it begins with our perspective on the past.

This New Year, let’s revolutionize our approach by replacing traditional resolutions with gratitude and reflection.

The holiday season is undeniably complex. While it can bring joy, it can also pose significant challenges for many.

As the holiday season approaches, excitement can easily give way to stress. The pressure to manage family gatherings, gift shopping, and...

Managing holiday anxiety can feel overwhelming, but it’s possible to enjoy the season with a clear plan and some mindfulness.

Curiosity can truly change how we experience gatherings. Ask yourself: what can you discover from this gathering? What stories are hidden?

Understanding the Impact of Big T and Little t Trauma. Each journey through trauma is unique, and understanding each through therapy.