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Finding Inner Peace Through Self-Reflection and Introspection
Self-reflection isn't about dwelling on mistakes or being overly critical. It's an opportunity to pause and gain insight into the many layers that shape who you are. Have you ever considered what your strengths are or what challenges you face? Start your journey of self-discovery with questions like: What aspects of myself do I struggle with? What qualities do I admire in myself? After a tough day, try writing down three things you've learned about yourself.
mrebekahshurtleff
3 days ago3 min read
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Understanding the Balance: Self-Compassion vs Self-Indulgence
By practicing self-compassion, you can cultivate a more supportive internal dialogue and foster self-growth without falling into the trap of excessive indulgence. Aim to treat yourself with kindness while still being mindful of your choices. Prioritize your long-term well-being, and you’ll find a harmonious balance that nourishes both the heart and mind.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 195 min read
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Healing the Heart: Navigating the Complex Emotions of Father's Day
Father's Day is not just a calendar mark. It stirs deep feelings, making us reflect on our relationships with our fathers. For some, this is a joyful occasion filled with love and gratitude. For others, it can be a time of sadness, reminding them of lost connections or painful memories. This post will explore the complex emotions tied to Father’s Day, acknowledging both the pain and the beauty of our experiences.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 54 min read
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Free Yourself from Your Past Versions of Self
Therapy can serve as a mirror, reflecting both your internal and external selves. It encourages introspection and guides you toward a more genuine version of yourself. Each session can bring you closer to a happier you, free from the constraints of outdated beliefs. The transformative journey of letting go and healing is indeed powerful. As you let go of survival-based versions, you unlock new dimensions of your identity and the potential for enriching relationships.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 314 min read
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5 Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion and Foster Personal Growth
Self-reflection is not about dwelling on the past or criticizing yourself harshly. It's about pausing, questioning, and understanding.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 233 min read
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What's the Difference Between Being Alone and Feeling Lonely?
Understanding the difference between being alone and feeling lonely is essential for enhancing our emotional health.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 193 min read
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How to Distinguish Between Self-Compassion and Self-Indulgence: A Professional Approach
Self-kindness involves treating yourself with warmth instead of being critical.
mrebekahshurtleff
Mar 153 min read
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Unveiling the Secrets of Self-Love: Overcoming Obstacles and Embracing Your True Self
Self-love starts with developing self-awareness, embracing self-acceptance, and prioritizing self-care and loving relationship with yourself
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 133 min read
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Supporting Others in Crisis: The Art of Extending a Helping Hand without Overstepping Boundaries
Supporting others in crisis is about compassion and respect for their personal boundaries. Your actions can create a space to heal.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 163 min read
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Embracing January Dreams and Beating the Blues with a Positive Mindset
Explore practical ways to cultivate a positive mindset, tackle the January blues, and unlock the potential of January dreams.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 84 min read
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2025: Embracing Self-Compassion and Growth After 2024's Lessons Learned
2025 holds the potential for new opportunities and growth, and it begins with our perspective on the past.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 43 min read
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Revolutionize Your New Year: Swap Resolutions for Gratitude and Celebration
This New Year, let’s revolutionize our approach by replacing traditional resolutions with gratitude and reflection.
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 29, 20243 min read
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Unveiling the Truth: Are the Holidays Really Happy?
The holiday season is undeniably complex. While it can bring joy, it can also pose significant challenges for many.
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 14, 20244 min read
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5 Ways to Conquer Holiday Stress and Find Inner Peace
As the holiday season approaches, excitement can easily give way to stress. The pressure to manage family gatherings, gift shopping, and...
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 7, 20243 min read
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Managing Holiday Anxiety: Tips for Navigating the Stress of the Season
Managing holiday anxiety can feel overwhelming, but it’s possible to enjoy the season with a clear plan and some mindfulness.
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 30, 20243 min read
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Embrace the Unknown: Elevating Family Gatherings with Curiosity and Connection
Curiosity can truly change how we experience gatherings. Ask yourself: what can you discover from this gathering? What stories are hidden?
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 22, 20244 min read
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Understanding the Impact of Big T and Little t Trauma
Understanding the Impact of Big T and Little t Trauma. Each journey through trauma is unique, and understanding each through therapy.
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 10, 20243 min read
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Unveiling the Power of EMDR Therapy for Veterans: A Guide to Processing Traumatic Events and PTSD
EMDR is a therapeutic approach that helps individuals process distressing memories. The primary goal is to desensitize these memories.
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 10, 20243 min read
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Stay Chill and Connected: 10 Unexpected Ways to Handle Holiday Stress with Family
holiday season should be a chance to reconnect with those we love, not a source of anxiety. By implementing these ten unexpected techniques.
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 2, 20244 min read
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Forgiveness for Family Harmony: A Transformative Holiday Approach
Embrace the power of forgiveness; it might just transform how you celebrate the holidays for years to come; honor our past foster our future
mrebekahshurtleff
Oct 31, 20243 min read
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Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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