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Breaking the Cycle of Codependency: Reclaiming Your Energy and Building Healthy Connections
Trying to heal someone else often leads to codependency. When you invest your emotional energy in managing another person’s feelings or problems, you give them power over your own well-being. This dynamic drains the energy you need for your own life and growth. Understanding why you are drawn to such relationships and learning how to set boundaries can help you break free from this cycle and build healthier connections. Understanding what draws you to codependent relationship
mrebekahshurtleff
May 173 min read


Weaving Forgiveness into the Fabric of Family Dynamics for Healing and Growth
Starting the journey toward forgiveness can feel overwhelming. Here are some practical steps families can take:
Acknowledge the pain: Recognize the hurt without minimizing it.
Express feelings: Share emotions openly with trusted family members or a therapist.
Reflect on the impact: Understand how holding onto resentment affects your life.
Choose forgiveness: Make a conscious decision to let go of grudges for your own peace.
Seek professional support through counseling.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 93 min read


Family Gatherings: How Curiosity Can Transform Your Experience
Family gatherings often stir up mixed feelings. Some look forward to reconnecting, while others feel uneasy or even want to avoid these events. When family dynamics are challenging or you feel out of place, skipping gatherings might seem like the easiest choice. Yet, avoiding these moments can increase anxiety and cause missed opportunities to build stronger bonds. Approaching family events with curiosity can shift your experience from stressful to meaningful. Read more....
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 26, 20253 min read


Understanding the Connection Between Stress and Mental Health: Tips for Cultivating Well-being
You can transform your relationship with stress, enhance your mental health, and embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth.
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 10, 20243 min read
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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