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Essential Tips to Nurture Family Connections That Last a Lifetime
Just as we invest in our careers or personal growth, investing in family relationships is crucial for long-term happiness. Building strong connections requires intentional effort. Make it a priority to spend quality time together, engage in meaningful conversations, and create shared experiences. Research indicates that families who prioritize these elements report an 85% overall satisfaction in their relationships. Remember, the time and energy you dedicate to nurturing thes
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 294 min read
 
 


Navigating Conflict: Why Sidestepping Issues May Lead to Inner Turmoil
When we go to unimaginable lengths to keep others comfortable—be it our partners, bosses, parents, or even our children—we often sacrifice our own well-being. We apologize excessively, grovel, and even offer up special favors to maintain the status quo. While these actions may keep our relationships afloat temporarily, they can set the stage for a much larger explosion down the road. The war begins not between you and another person, but within yourself. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 224 min read
 
 


Invest in Your Future: Discover the Life-Changing Benefits of Counseling Services
The benefits of counseling services are both impressive and far-reaching. From increased self-awareness and improved coping skills to better communication and heightened self-esteem, counseling is a lifeline for those in need and a valuable investment in a healthier, more satisfying life. As we prioritize our mental health, let's remember that seeking counseling shows strength. By embracing counseling services, we can build a brighter, more resilient future. Take that first s
mrebekahshurtleff
Aug 54 min read
 
 


How to Not Take Things Personally: Eight Strategies to Build Self-Worth and Challenge Negative Thoughts
In a world full of differing opinions and judgments, it's all too easy to take things personally. A seemingly innocuous comment from a friend, feedback from a colleague, or even criticism from a loved one can sting deeply and affect our emotional well-being. When someone says, "Don't take it so personally," it might feel dismissive, but learning to separate facts from feelings is vital for your mental health. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jul 204 min read
 
 


Finding Inner Peace Through Self-Reflection and Introspection
Self-reflection isn't about dwelling on mistakes or being overly critical. It's an opportunity to pause and gain insight into the many layers that shape who you are. Have you ever considered what your strengths are or what challenges you face? Start your journey of self-discovery with questions like: What aspects of myself do I struggle with? What qualities do I admire in myself? After a tough day, try writing down three things you've learned about yourself. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jun 293 min read
 
 


Free Yourself from Your Past Versions of Self
Therapy can serve as a mirror, reflecting both your internal and external selves. It encourages introspection and guides you toward a more genuine version of yourself. Each session can bring you closer to a happier you, free from the constraints of outdated beliefs. The transformative journey of letting go and healing is indeed powerful. As you let go of survival-based versions, you unlock new dimensions of your identity and the potential for enriching relationships.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 314 min read
 
 


5 Ways to Cultivate Self-Compassion and Foster Personal Growth
Self-reflection is not about dwelling on the past or criticizing yourself harshly. It's about pausing, questioning, and understanding.
mrebekahshurtleff
May 223 min read
 
 


Self-Love: Is Putting Yourself First Really Selfish?
In today’s fast-paced world, self-love often gets a bad rap. Many equate it with selfishness, thinking that prioritizing your own needs...
mrebekahshurtleff
Feb 113 min read
 
 


Unlocking Your Self-Love Language: The Key to Uncharted Personal Fulfillment
Knowing your self-love language is not merely a destination; it is an ongoing process. Enjoy the journey and revel in the growth it brings.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 314 min read
 
 


How to Navigate Conflicts With Love and Empathy: A Guide to Healthy Communication in Couples Counseling
Navigating conflicts with love and empathy is not just a skill—it's a commitment to nurturing a healthy relationship. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 213 min read
 
 


Supporting Others in Crisis: The Art of Extending a Helping Hand without Overstepping Boundaries
Supporting others in crisis is about compassion and respect for their personal boundaries. Your actions can create a space to heal.
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 163 min read
 
 


2025: Embracing Self-Compassion and Growth After 2024's Lessons Learned
2025 holds the potential for new opportunities and growth, and it begins with our perspective on the past. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 43 min read
 
 


Embracing the Good-Enoughist Mindset: Overcoming Self-Rejection and Perfectionism
Many perfectionists avoid vulnerability, resulting in harsh self-criticism, which only deepens feelings of rejection. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Jan 13 min read
 
 


Revolutionize Your New Year: Swap Resolutions for Gratitude and Celebration
This New Year, let’s revolutionize our approach by replacing traditional resolutions with gratitude and reflection. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 29, 20243 min read
 
 


Exploring the Nuances of Being Alone Versus Feeling Lonely During the Holidays
As the holidays approach, it’s important to differentiate between being physically alone and the deeper sense of loneliness.
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 18, 20243 min read
 
 


Unveiling the Truth: Are the Holidays Really Happy?
The holiday season is undeniably complex. While it can bring joy, it can also pose significant challenges for many. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 14, 20244 min read
 
 


5 Ways to Conquer Holiday Stress and Find Inner Peace
As the holiday season approaches, excitement can easily give way to stress. The pressure to manage family gatherings, gift shopping, and...
mrebekahshurtleff
Dec 7, 20243 min read
 
 


Managing Holiday Anxiety: Tips for Navigating the Stress of the Season
Managing holiday anxiety can feel overwhelming, but it’s possible to enjoy the season with a clear plan and some mindfulness. 
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 30, 20243 min read
 
 


Embrace the Unknown: Elevating Family Gatherings with Curiosity and Connection
Curiosity can truly change how we experience gatherings. Ask yourself: what can you discover from this gathering? What stories are hidden?
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 22, 20244 min read
 
 


Breaking Free: Escaping the Hidden Habit that Sabotages Your Best Life
Deep down, many of us know there's a habit that holds us back from living our best lives. Ask yourself "What am I pretending not to know?"
mrebekahshurtleff
Nov 19, 20243 min read
 
 
Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist
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