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Five Mindfulness Techniques to Manage Stress and Overcome Racing Thoughts

Stress and racing thoughts can feel like a constant storm in your mind, making it hard to focus or find peace. When your thoughts spiral, it’s easy to get caught in a loop of worry and anxiety. Mindfulness techniques offer practical ways to calm this storm by helping you stay present and gently guide your mind away from stress. These easy steps for mindfulness can fit into any routine and bring noticeable relief.

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Sit quietly and observe your thoughts without judgment.

Manage Thoughts by Observing Without Judgment


Mindfulness is about noticing your thoughts without getting pulled into them. When stress hits, pause and watch your thoughts like clouds passing in the sky. This simple act of observation helps you stop rumination, the habit of replaying negative thoughts over and over.


Try this:

  • When you feel overwhelmed, take a moment to label your thoughts: Are they worries, fears, or judgments?

  • Acknowledge them without criticism.

  • Gently shift your focus to a neutral or positive thought, such as a memory or a goal.


Practicing thought management when calm builds mental habits that help you later when intrusive thoughts arise. This builds resilience and reduces the power of stress-triggering thoughts.


Use Breathing Exercises to Calm Your Body and Mind


Breathing exercises are one of the most accessible mindfulness techniques. Deep breathing activates your body’s relaxation response, lowering heart rate and easing tension.


Here’s a simple way to practice:

  • Find a quiet spot and sit or lay comfortably.

  • Place one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach.

  • Breathe deeply into your diaphragm so your stomach rises more than your chest.

  • Inhale slowly through your nose, counting to four.

  • Hold your breath for seven counts.

  • Exhale fully through your mouth for eight counts.

  • Repeat this 4-7-8 breathing cycle three to five times.


Think of breathing in fresh, healing air and breathing out stress and tension. This practice helps you reconnect with the present moment and brings immediate calm.


Practice Mindful Meditation Daily


Meditation is a powerful way to develop mindfulness and manage stress. Even a few minutes a day can make a difference.


To start:

  • Sit, stand or lay down quietly in a comfortable position.

  • Close your eyes or focus on a single item and notice your breath.

  • When your mind wanders, no judgment, just gently bring your attention back to your breathing.

  • Notice sensations, sounds, or thoughts without judgment.


Regular meditation trains your brain to stay present and reduces the intensity of racing thoughts. Use mindfulness as a proactive practice to manage thoughts while you are in a calm state. Over time, it builds self-compassion, helping you treat yourself kindly when stress arises.


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Hands resting during meditation in natural light

Use Grounding Techniques to Anchor Yourself


Grounding techniques help you reconnect with the here and now when your mind races. They bring your focus to your body and surroundings, breaking the cycle of overwhelming thoughts.


Try these grounding steps:

  • Name five things you can see around you.

  • Notice four things you can touch.

  • Listen for three sounds.

  • Identify two smells.

  • Recognize one taste.


This sensory check-in pulls your attention away from stress and into the present moment, making it easier to manage thoughts and feelings.


Cultivate Self-Compassion in Your Mindfulness Practice


Stress often comes with harsh self-judgment. Mindfulness techniques work best when paired with self-compassion—treating yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend.


Practice self-compassion by:

  • Noticing when you criticize yourself.

  • Replacing harsh thoughts with gentle, supportive phrases like “I’m doing my best” or “It’s okay to feel this way.”

  • Recognize the critical voice as embedded in you by others, say "return to sender" to send it back where ever it came from.

  • Allowing yourself to rest without guilt.


Self-compassion reduces stress and helps you respond to difficult emotions with care rather than resistance. Use the five mindfulness techniques every day to develop new muscle memory to manage stress.


Five Mindfulness Techniques created by Rebekah Shurtleff, MA, LMFT, APCC, at rebekahcounseling.com. Contact me for a 1 minute meditation guidance practice.



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Content by Rebekah Shurtleff Marriage and Family Therapist

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